祝你在离线世界里一切顺利

A handful of people I follow and know about have announced their recent departure. Not from a job (although plenty of that going around), but from social media, AI usage, or in more extreme cases the Internet entirely.

In Goodbye, Forever, Probably, Salma announced her retirement from the internet. She makes a sound case for leaving DevRel, a demanding job with mushy metrics that struggles to find a home between product and marketing, because community building is neither of those. I could see why Salma wanted out of the metric chasing and the daily requirement to be a public face. Salma foreshadowed this move for awhile, there was a palpable discontent with the industry in her online voice. And she did it. She made the jump to the Offline and she’s been dark on the internet since her post. I haven’t talked to her personally, but I hear second-hand she’s making good on her word and laying low at a good company as an individual contributor. I wish her the best and that the detoxing process goes well.

Then there’s Chad Whitacre who announced his retirement with a typewriter-written letter. His plan? Lay low and make a zine about religion. That seems like a charming project but I get so curious about people’s financial situations when they’re able to make such asymmetrical moves like that. He lives in a rural town near Pittsburgh, does selling $10 zines afford that lifestyle? What about healthcare? Does he have a trust fund? A recent inheritance? Bitcoin? Years of an early retirement strategy paying off? I shouldn’t ruin the anti-capitalistic vibe with such trivial capitalistic questions but I love it and my brain jumps to trying to make the math work for myself. Either way, I wish him the best in the Offline.

Brett Codes shared his post I’m done using AI (and video). It caused a stir on the algorithm. Based on followup videos, Brett seems happy with his decision which perhaps comes down to the fact that he’s a person who stands by his convictions –he’s a vegan, uses a dumb-phone, etc.– and I think he finds fulfillment in eschewing the social norms. But I admire his perspective as someone who used AI but ultimately decided to let it go. Betting your career against the thing (it seems) all companies are hyper-scaling towards is a big bet. Either you’re right and the world will always need people who know how software works, or you’re wrong and you’re left in the dust… or we’re all steam rolled by the errant contraption. Either way, I wish him the best unplugging from the machine.

I know of other stories but because three is a magic number that people find harmony in, I’ll cap it here. There’s a sad irony when someone jettisons from social media, they’re gone from our Online worlds but I’m so happy for them. And I mourn what we don’t get to hear from them. We don’t get to hear about how wonderful they feel, how beautiful their skin is now, and how they restored their mental health. We don’t know if they make more money or less money. We don’t get further inspiration from them to leave the Online. But being able to observe the Offline from the Online might ruin the magic and mystery hidden there. It’s a door hidden in an old wardrobe that you have to pass through to fully understand.

Anyways, should you leave us and follow those who have gone ahead, I wish you the best in the Offline. I hope to join you there soon.